Let Go?

”Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”

Leo Buscaglia.

I would be a year older tomorrow. I came home from work today and found myself trawling through some motivational articles to make sense of the impending days ahead, and then I stumbled on the short article below. I believe I should share it and I am keen to find out your thoughts on this though. Do you agree with the author’s point of view? Or maybe you don’t, why?

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‘They say that, at some point, you learn to let go. I must disagree. If it just takes one moment to let go, then you never really held on tightly enough. To a dream. To a goal. To a place. To a person. To anything. I believe that you let go little by little. You let go a little, then hold back on, but with a little less force until you fully release yourself. And the tighter you old on, the more force you let go with. The deeper you dive, the higher you’ll fly. The closer you get, the further you’ll pull away. The weaker you feel, the stronger you’ll become. So do not be ashamed of your weaknesses. We all have them. You must learn to be kind to yourself. You must learn to understand yourself. You must believe in yourself. Never think that you are a bad person. Differentiate between your self-worth and your actions. To say that you are bad is different from saying that you made a mistake. You can’t fix yourself, but you can fix a mistake. And remember, not one person on this earth is perfect. We all make mistakes. We all fall. We all have flaws. We just need to look within ourselves and treat ourselves as humans who are worthy of respect and hope. Do not give up on yourself. Get back up. Be brave. Be happy.”

Najwa Zebain

Najwa is a Lebanese Canadian author who self published her book, ‘Mind Platter’ in January, 2016 by Createspace. She is a deep thinker and writes from a wealth of experience. I don’t know her personally but I sincerely believe in her story.

I hope you’ll all have a fantastic weekend!

Much love, always! 🙂

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15 comments on “Let Go?

  1. I agree with some of the author’s point of view but not all. There are some scenarios where you don’t hold on and just let go. Citing an example, a woman (or man) in an abusive relationship would certainly want to let go if her life and the lives of her children could be in danger. However, that applies to negative situations. Najwa is certainly talented.

    Happy birthday tomorrow Seyi! I wish you, love, peace, long life, and sound health. You deserve it!!
    Cheers.
    Christy

  2. Al says:

    I think sometimes holding on is the worst thing you can do. I have had two cases in the last decade where holding on would have been a bad choice.

    Other times, I have held on and it has been the best decision as letting go at that point would have been destructive.

    Have a great birthday today Seyi. You deserve it.

    • Seyi sandra says:

      I quiet agree and honestly think there are situations and scenarios where you just let go. However, like you rightly pointed out, there are also times when you hold on and use restraint. Life is pretty complex and it takes wisdom to nagivate several tricky situations.

      I appreciate your kindness, I had a wonderful birthday. My warm regards to the family Al.
      Blessings. 🙂

      • Al says:

        I nearly lost my best friend at one point through my own stupidity, but I held on to her and we are stronger friends now. Other times – like my ex-wife – if I had held on there, then life would have gone drastically differently.

      • Seyi sandra says:

        That’s a valid point Al. I’m glad you thought everything through before acting though. Life’s too precious to hold on to what’s already lost or loss what should be cherished. I hope you’ll enjoy the rest of your weekend my friend.
        Blessings. 🙂

  3. grannyK says:

    Happy birthday to you!

  4. Great post. We’re all different. Age can be a factor as well re quickly or slowly letting go. Walking away from the past or negativism is hard but must often be done for emotional survival…never easy. And don’t forget, things and life changes all the time so there is no one pat answer…what works best for one may not work for another.

    Wishing you a wonderful Birthday with much surrounding love.

    • Seyi sandra says:

      Thanks for your kind comment Bonny. I concur to your assertion that age also plays a factor in letting go or not, and like you wrote, different strokes for different folks. Life is never straight forward.

      I appreciate your visit and birthday wishes, thanks and God bless you!
      Blessings. 🙂

  5. Perfect image on this post! Enjoy your B’Earthday!

    tomas

  6. dayya says:

    I think being able to let go of something means you’ve come to know yourself better in some way and you are a little bit wiser, even if it’s a dream you’re releasing. I hope you had a wonderful birthday, Seyi! And hey, the month’s not over!

  7. FCEtier says:

    Some things (such as the loss of a spouse), you don’t want to let go. You learn to live without them while cherishing the wonderful memories of the time you had together.
    Happy birthday!

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