Temporary…

9520009042_e4932a250c_o Leon Tarac

(Photo credit: Leon Tarac)

I like this wise saying from American author Napoleon Hill that, ‘one of the most common causes of failure is the habit of quitting when one is overtaken by temporary defeat.’

Defeat can be an ongoing thing when we give up. Most of us know the story of Abraham Lincoln, how he failed severally before becoming a President people celebrate till today. I’ve seen countless temporary defeats (I’ll call it delay) in my short life, but do you know what I do? I learn from it and find out what caused the delay in the first place and do it again. And I tend to succeed,

I just don’t pack it in and give up!

Life is too short and too beautiful to give up at the first sign of defeat. I laugh at the face of danger and failure, because I have a dream of what my life should be and I’m not gonna rest till I achieve my goal and purpose in life. Do you know that you can beat cancer? Poverty? Low self-esteem? And all those dross of life that makes living akin to running a race in the mud! It’s all in your mind.

My husband used to say this and I agree, ‘you’re the only one that can make yourself happy… no one can!” And I will add this as well, that you’re the complete integral part or clue to your success in life. I can go on and on but I hope this week will be a great week for you… and if there is a temporary defeat lurking at a corner of your life, just pick yourself up and go again.

I wish you love and peace wherever you are in the world, and remember, temporary defeat doesn’t mean failure! Enjoy the rest of your week my friends!

Much love, always!

🙂

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37 comments on “Temporary…

  1. Much love and peace to you as well

  2. Freddiejay says:

    One of your best post, I love this! It fits my thinking , spot on!

  3. Al says:

    Robert The Bruce and the Spider.

    Good old Bob had been beaten, defeated, destroyed by the English. Driven into exile, hunted across Scotland, and he hid himself in a cave. He was lost, ready to give in. He sat there watching a spider. It would climb a wall and fall. Climb the wall and fall. Climb the wall and fall. The spider would not give in. Then it climbed and stuck a strand to the wall and proceeded to build a web. Bobby Bruce was inspired by this. The fact that the spider refused to give in time and time again. He rallied men to him under the “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again” at the Battle of Bannockburn, he drove the English out of Scotland. I am proud of this because one of my ancestors was his right hand man there. Admittedly, he died early on in the battle, but Alexander Forbes was with Robert The Bruce.

    If a spider doesn’t give in, if Robert the Bruce doesn’t give in, if Seyi Sandra David doesn’t give in, neither should anyone else.

    • Seyi sandra says:

      Oh my God! Alastair Forbes, I’ve got tears in my eyes reading this! This is like a post on it’s own! Thanks for sharing this with me. It’s an Honour! I love it!! What a precious piece of history, you’ve got my adrenalin up my friend!! It’s just wonderful, there’s nothing like believing in victory against all odds…
      Much love. 🙂

  4. I made myself happy by visiting your blog, and reading your very uplifting thoughts, my dear Seyi– now I know it’s going to be a lovely day! : )

  5. Sandra, this is a wonderful post. Are back? It’s been a quite a while now 🙂

    • Seyi sandra says:

      Thanks my friend, I came back on Monday, a week later than I originally planned! I’ll hop over to yours and read your wonderful poems to my heart’s content and I’ll still send a description of that Haiku for my new book!
      Much love. 🙂

  6. Uzoma says:

    An inspiring post, sis. Yes, I also believe in a similar line that says “No one can tell you that you are a failure unless you count yourself as one.” While reading your post, I couldn’t help but nod my head in total agreement. Defeat, disappointment, set back will all come. But what defines a man is his ability to move forward with optimism.

    Thank you for this post. It’s a gift!

    • Seyi sandra says:

      Thanks for reading Uzoma, this morning before I went to work, I just took stock of my life and realised that I’ve never really call it a day in any of my projects, even when disappointment is staring me in the face, there’s always that inner resolve, and with the help of God, I always push on. I’m blessed to have a friend in you and honoured by your visits and kind comments!
      Aloha.

  7. This is all so true but I think sometimes along the way we forget how to make ourselves happy. So we look outside ourselves until we realize it again we are looking in the wrong place. Wonderful post.

  8. ledrakenoir says:

    Very well written – and yeah “temporary defeat doesn’t mean failure” – actually then one step back followed by 2 steps forward would be better than to stand still… 🙂

  9. Beautifully written, you can’t fail if you don’t give up! Well done you!
    🙂

  10. RoSy says:

    Lots of wise words & good advice here – Thanks! 🙂 xo

  11. seanbidd says:

    Hey, running a race in mud is fun, I can remember tearing through swamps on foot as a young’n, but you had to keep an eye out for the snakes. Yes, it’s feels good to keep going after the first tact one takes doesn’t quiet work the way it was planed… Have a good week too, Seyi..

  12. daniellajoe says:

    I love visiting with you, so I can get my inspiration for the day, have a safe weekend!! 🙂

  13. SerachShiro says:

    Very wise sad and ou’re totally right when you make a failure, never give up because you can learn from it and again come out much stronger :)Thanks Sandra for this good positive post 🙂

  14. WordsFallFromMyEyes says:

    Yes, yes & YES!

  15. freddiejay says:

    i love this post i saved it and come back to it often and im well ive been working like mad to get this book out and im very close to launch its getting really exciting. i love writing

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