Words Are Forever!



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Sean kicked the grass in frustration, his eyes filled with tears and he tried to control himself with great difficulty. His dad‘s harsh voice resounded in his mind like a volcanic eruption, ”You’re no good, you’re like your mother – a drug addict! I hate you.” He dashed inside the house, his dad recoiled on a chair, a glass of beer in his right hand, remote control on the other. They exchanged hateful glances. And Sean raised the gun.


Hamza tried to stop the tirades of abuse from the boys in the estate, ‘you’re a loser, go kill yourself.’ At home, it was worse, his mother was stoned twenty-four hours a day… He left the house but the words of the boys clung to him like a second skin.


Chloe’s brown eyes light up in anticipation. Her dad kissed her on the cheek, and said with a smile, ‘you light up my world angel, you’re a star, you can do this.’ She nodded, her future is bright, she knows she can do anything she set her heart to, she had been nurtured with loving words, right through her childhood, and now at the age of twenty, the world is her oyster.

* * * * *

The words we speak has the power to destroy or build up, let’s be mindful of our words. Some people were damaged by words of others while some have killed others by their words. Let’s choose our words carefully. A word fitly spoken has the power to change a life…

Think about that this weekend, and I wish you love, peace and happiness, wherever you are in the world my friends. Have a great weekend!

Much love, always.


35 comments on “Words Are Forever!

  1. Jueseppi B. says:

    Reblogged this on The ObamaCrat™.

  2. Al says:

    Sticks and stones
    Will break my bones
    But words will
    Make or break me

    This is an excellent post Seyi. So very true.

  3. Words are powerful, a timely reminder Seyi!

  4. JC says:

    Hi Seyi,
    I’ve missed a couple of your posts….but I was talking about this very same thing the other day. We had a situation where one twin shot the other twin because of some of the dynamics you mentioned above. I don’t think we realize that careless, hurtful words are ‘seeds’ once they leave our mouth. Perhaps that’s why the bible says ‘life and death lies in the power of the tongue’…

    Blessings my sister

  5. Selah says:

    God bless You

  6. Very well put, Sandra. Words can make you and words can break you. Pawkisses for a wonderful weekend 🙂

  7. Uzoma says:

    The snippets that serve as a prelude to the message in this post are not far from the various situations some people face.

    Words have power. I’ve learnt to mind what I say. What I say and do goes a long to tell people who I am.

  8. WordsFallFromMyEyes says:

    And don’t I know this from experience, I do, Seyisandra. My father battened my ego, my spirit, the life out of me with WORDS relentlessly, spitefully, literally frothing at the mouth often (he did). I in turn have endeavoured with all that I possess to support, lift up and empower my son Daniel with my words. I ABSOLUTELY know about words, yes.

    Great post/reminder. 🙂

  9. Isabella Rose Photography says:

    Great post and so very true. Words are indeed extremely powerful. Blessings, my dear friend ♥

  10. RoSy says:

    Words can be encouraging or they can be deadly weapons. We definitely need to choose wisely.
    Hope you had a nice weekend!
    Happy Monday – Happy New Week 🙂 xo

  11. Sandra, those are powerful truths. The short pieces up there brought tears to my eyes. I can only thank you for sharing this as sometimes, I go overboard when my kids annoy me.

    • Seyi sandra says:

      You’re not only dear, although it takes super human strength to train children but I’ve seen the impact of words in the life of children and adults alike! God help us! 😉 Thanks for stopping by!

  12. orthodoxmom3 says:

    It’s taken me 44 years to finally get the critical words out of my head that I experienced in only 3 years of my childhood…. yes,words are powerful and forever… I’ll never forget them…but at least their not a broken record inside my head every time I make a mistake now! 🙂

    • Seyi sandra says:

      That’s good to know, words are powerful, and they stay with us for a very long time!

      I’m glad you’ve moved on. Thanks for your visit, I appreciate it.
      Blessings. 🙂

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